Women, The Common Underdog?
Underdogs, we hear a lot about being an underdog in sports. The 6th seed in football, the 16th seed in college hoops, the last round picks in the NFL draft. They are all underdogs. We cheer for them as each win they achieve, we rally and want them to go further as no-one believed in them and expected them to pretty much phone it in. We expect the winners to continue to win but when the underdog beats that pick, we root for them hard as why not? They beat a team they should not have and we form an alliance to them like no other. While we smell a bit of bandwagon we also see bit of ourselves in them. They are achieving something we want and when we write that killer post that gets retweeted beyond our wildest dreams or land that client because we skunked the big boys, we want that appreciation and rallying. Great Cinderella story but that is sports and then there is the reality of the underdog. The workplace.
Women, the Common Underdog?
Women in the workplace has been a hot topic lately. It is frequently many times for the great strides women are making however we are seeing where that is not the general sentiment or reality. In tech, we are seeing more women emerge but yet not achieving high management jobs. Inc Magazine recently ran an article written by a woman that talked about how women have to give themselves credit and how we have to feel that we can contribute more. I was a bit perplexed by this as most women I know are contributing as much as they can and are not apologetic about it, nor should they be as many times they are give more more than their male counterparts but they are still not moving in the same direction up the proverbial corporate ladder. They key is as.much.as.they.can.
As Much As They Can
Women walking into the marketplace are labeled. Marriage hungry, baby bearers, leaving the corporate world to be the soccer mom. If that does not bring on the great depression in women, I do not know what will. Not every woman will marry, not every woman will have a child and not every woman will leave the corporate world. Wow! How can a woman not want to be a wife, a mom and have play dates with mommy and me classes to fill their days with such an easy life while their husband go off to work for the long stressful hours?! Funny how society sees the man going to that “stressful” job that garners them a paycheck and advancements but never see a woman in the same light. No, women are too emotional, caddy (ok that may be true), not focused and lose that drive that got them to where they are once they become what is deemed the marrying and child bearing age. Naturally this ignores that being home with a child each day is easy and devoid of any stress.
The Reality and Choices
The reality is that women are the underdogs. We cannot play professional football, baseball and men’s basketball. Sure they created the lingerie league for football and WNBA but that is a separation that while protecting is controlling. Controlling is harsh but true. Women are controlled by societal factors of once married it is time to have a baby, the time to be home while the husband is out traveling, the 9 months of being pregnant, maternity leave, and then being confined to working within the times of daycare. Yes, that is the reality. There are fathers that do pick up the the child(ren) from daycare/babysitter but when they cannot, who do they call? Who now has to rearrange their schedule? In divorce or in the non-married folks, we automatically think of the mother being the primary custodial parent but there are many men who are the PCP and their limitations are just as prevalent as the single mom.
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