Memories That Last A Lifetime

Memories last a lifetime .. whether good or bad. Today as I do every year on December 1st think of  the people who cared. You see 28 years ago my family was devastated by a massive house fire. I can recall the minutes before the fire as if was yesterday and cherish the fact that me, my mom and my brother were all leaving at the same time and my 2 sisters were at school so no-one was hurt.

The Timing

I had come home for lunch that day as being an 8th grader we did that. So like every other day me and my friend Terry walked home and had to be back at school earlier as we were Safety Patrols. I honestly do not remember the walk home nor much about what I ate but I do remember her knock on the door and my mom telling me as I wanted to go upstairs to grab something that it was too late and I had to go as we do not make people wait. As my brother was running out the door to go and get into the car as he and my mom were going somewhere (they actually only did make it down the street to the local gas station when she was told and turned back) and I grumbled something to her and left. That was the soundest advice as the upstairs was in the beginning stages of being engulfed in flames. The smoke and fire alarms were seconds away from being triggered but we were all outside already and did not hear them.

The Walk

As I was walking back to school, I had heard the fire whistles and covered my ears as it was quite loud. I walked 2 blocks when me and Terry approached a post that had a classmate but also an adult with some sort of radio/police something. The classmate told me that it was MY house on fire. Yeah, ok as I was just there so there was no way it was my house. Blah Blah. As I approached my post and started hearing people say that Vara’s house is on fire and it is bad. I ran to find my younger sis to tell her that this may be real and um wow our house could be on fire. We had a little moment of who used the curling iron last and who left it on (that was always me) but I do not think we still believed it could be OUR house. I remember walking away and lining up to go back to class wondering is this real?

The Reality

Reality set in hard when I was taking a math test and was hitting my pencil against my head and looked to my left. I counted the streets and realized that the flames from the roof I saw was my house. MY house. The house that we called home, the house 3 or 4 days before the renovations were complete and brand spanky new carpeting was installed. 3 or 4 days and in a matter of minutes it is all gone.

The Giving of Others

That afternoon was filled with uncertainty. I was let out of school a little bit early that day as I was called down to the office and had to sit on the bench outside the office (been there before for talking during an assembly) and as I heard my the principal talking and I knew it was bad. I sat in the car and only muttered a simple question if my older sis in high school knew. Yeah she did as she is there already. “There” was a very telling word as this was not anything I ever could have imagined. The house we knew and loved had gaping holes in the floors, the walls and the smell of smoke/fire filled the neighborhood. For what came next is a true testament of the good of others.

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